Fifth Birthday

Remember when this entire blog was basically about my dog and running?

Ahem. Cough. Ahem.

What? Have things changed around here?

Because I promise you that on Monday morning, October 18, I glanced at the calendar on my way out the door to work and nearly scraped my jaw off the ground. It was Henry's fifth birthday and I seriously almost forgot about my first born!! What have I become?

My how times have changed. I remember his first birthday involving an actual party with other dogs and gourmet treats and what not. His second birthday was when I started the tradition with the birthday hat. We had just moved to Wisconsin and I think we might have taken him swimming in Lake Michigan for the first time as a treat.

His third birthday is chronicled here and his fourth birthday chronicled here ; both posts make me smile. Ah, little Henry. Remember when you had a voice on the internet? Not so much anymore, huh?

I'm still his mom, no matter how distracted I've become, and I still have the right to embarrass him in photo shoots:)






I still love my little fluff ball even if my attention is slightly diverted towards my human son these days. Sometimes I feel bad for Henry because of how much his life has changed in the past year....going from the king of the castle on every piece of furniture, sleeping in bed with us, endless photo shoots and attention....to being second place to Truman, never on furniture, and lucky if he gets a walk around the block. Sometimes I'll look down at my feet and see every single dog toy laying there as if to say, 'Mom, do you like any of these enough to throw them around with me?' So sad.

But then again, he still has a pretty sweet life and he knows we love him to death. I really do think he's better adjusted and more settled now compared to last year before his training and he really does love Truman, too. He got his peanut butter plate again this year and therefore he forgave me of all my sins. :)




We love you Henry. I know this last year has been a challenging one for you at times but you've handled it fabulously (well, except for our first night home from the hospital but we'll forget about that night). You are the best little doggie in the world bud. And don't worry, you still have 62 posts on this blog with your name on it and so far Truman is only at 54. You win for now! Let's go for a long walk today, okay? Just as soon as I change Truman's diaper...

Anyone else have a major shift in priorities when it comes to the family pet and a new baby? I don't think it's a bad thing, necessarily, because Henry is still happy and healthy and loved. But he just doesn't rule the roost anymore, that's all. :)

Flying with baby

Since I'm such a seasoned pro now, with two round trip flights from Milwaukee to St. Louis under my belt, I shall give a few tips I learned regarding traveling with a 6 month old baby. The first time we flew to St. Louis then my dad picked us up and drove us to Jefferson City (2 hour drive). The second time we flew to St. Louis and my mom picked us up and drove us to Evansville, Indiana (2.5 hour drive). Big trips overall with short flights. I would recommend your first flight with baby be a short one just to ease your mind that if a meltdown occurs, at least it won't be hours on end:)

Let me tell you, I stressed and fretted and thought these flights out like a crazy woman. And all of my planning did, in fact, pay off because both flights were cake walks. But actually, it might not have had much to do with my planning but a lot more to do with my sweet baby boy having amazing tolerance to all things his mommy stresses over weeks in advance. I'm telling you, that boy teaches me more about RELAXING than any glass of wine could do. :)


Packing light when traveling with baby:
Both times we flew with Truman we did not check a bag which is something I'm very proud of, considering that it's so hard to stick to the basics when you have four nights to consider. Oh, and one of those trips did include a bridesmaid dress, heels, and all wedding-related paraphernalia packed into one carry-on bag. I know, it's amazing I pulled that off, isn't it?

My biggest advice here: make a detailed list a few days before your trip. I divided mine up into the following categories: To take on 'personal carry on' bag (aka my big pump bag that also served as my purse and 'mommy emergency bag'); To take for me in the 'real carry on'; To take for Truman in the 'real carry on'. When I suggest you make a detailed list I mean that I seriously wrote out each and every outfit that I would wear on specific days and the same for Truman's clothing. I packed about three extra outfits for T-man, too, because let's get real---babies are messy and I wasn't sure we'd do laundry on our trips.

The most important bag was definitely my pump bag/personal carry-on. I put my wallet, cell phone, boarding passes, hand sanitizer wipes, and 5 ounce bottle in the outer pockets so I could grab them easily. Then on the inside I had my small bottle cooler holding ice packs and Amoxicillan plus some baby food. I also put a burp cloth, nursing cover, and lots of toys in there, along with my camera (duh!). I had a small changing pad, a few disposable diapers, butt wipes, and trash bags, too, in case we had to change his dipe (I did a few times, mostly in airport bathrooms). I kept my quart size ziploc bag full of my toiletries in an outside pocket of my bag, too, so I could pull it out easily during security. I put my pump and all pump parts into my luggage because I knew I wouldn't actually need those items on the plane itself and it gave me more room that way. Only put the essentials you will need DURING the flight itself in that bag and pack the rest---that was my motto.

Oh, and I did consider leaving my pump at home since I'd have Truman with me on these trips and wasn't sure I'd really use the pump all that much. I'm so glad I brought it, though, because I did use it during our 2 hour car ride to and from my parents house while Truman took another bottle in the car seat. And for our 'Keri wedding trip' I needed it a few times since he took a bottle while I was out doing bridesmaid things, and I would just pump before bed to make up for that bottle. I also like to add breastmilk to purees and rice cereal so I needed the pump for that purpose, too. All in all: the pump was worth the extra bulk to pack.


Getting through security with baby and liquid gold:
During all my research prior to our first flight, I saw multiple sites suggest that you take a copy of the baby's birth certificate with you to prove that they are under 2 years of age even if it's obvious. Since we did not purchase Truman an actual seat on the plane I guess it makes sense that we might need to prove he is less than two years old, because the airlines' policy is kids under two don't need their own seat (nobody ever asked us for proof of age, by the way). They DO recommend, however, that you still buy them a seat and maybe even use your car seat to safely sit them in the plane just like you would do in a car. Although I'm all about safety for Truman I did not want to buy him a ticket nor did I want to lug around that car seat and he was totally comfortable in my lap anyway. I decided that for the first two years of his life we are going to utilize the option for him to sit on our laps and then we'll pay for an actual seat when the airlines make us. At least, that is my plan for now--it might change when he's more mobile.

On our first flight to STL, Nate and I put Truman in a small umbrella stroller to push him through the airport. We liked this method because he had a place to hang out and chill while we sipped coffee and waited to board the plane and he was loving his stylish transportation. You can take the stroller right up to the plane and then they'll put it under the plane to 'valet' it, free of charge. On our second flight to STL, I did the first leg of the journey with Truman by myself and Nate flew down separately later. (ps--this was also when Truman had his ear infection so you know I was totally psychotic about flying alone with a sick baby!). So since I had to manage Truman, my pump bag, and my carry on luggage alone this time I decided to carry Truman in the Baby Bjorn. That way I had both hands free to pull luggage and dig for boarding passes. He loved this way, too, but it was a bit harder once we were through security and sitting around--he had nowhere to sit other than my lap and therefore I did not get my coffee for fear of spilling it on baby boy. Plus the twenty-pounder is getting a bit heavy for my back in the Bjorn and I really don't feel like buying a different carrier at this point.

I just carried Truman on my hip through the actual security scanner when he was in the stroller, and they let me keep him in the Bjorn as I walked through the second time. I wasn't sure if they'd make me hand him over separately or not, but they were fine with me holding him with me.

All four times I passed through security I did have a full bottle of breastmilk and I told the dudes at the x-ray machine about it. Twice they did absolutely nothing and just let it slide through and twice they had me go to the side, unscrew the bottle, and they tested it for vapors. Oh and once they had to examine my actual pump to make sure it wasn't a bomb, I guess:) They never seemed to care about ice packs in the cooler, the medicine, or the baby food, so who knows. I was prepared to put up a fight but never had to be that mom.

I guess I should mention--we decided NOT to bring our carseat just to save on space and luckily my mom borrowed one for us to use once we were in Missouri. So our road trips from the airport to my parents house/to Indiana involved a borrowed car seat and it turned out fine. I know some people will take theirs and check it at the gate, like we did for the stroller, but if you can borrow one easily at your destination it will be a lot easier, in my opinion. And similarly, I would think an umbrella stroller would be a lot easier to deal with than a big travel system but to each her own.


During the flight itself:

I picked our seats online upon check in every time, and I always tried to get the very back seats if able. I just felt like then we'd have less people staring up at us if Truman melted down and if I had to whip out the tat less people would see. I sat next to the window each time and Nate sat in the aisle to 'block' me in case of boobage, and the one flight I did alone we had a stranger sit next to Truman and I. I was totally freaked about possibly exposing myself in the name of soothing a crying babe; but of course, Truman made best friends with him and it was totally fine keeping my shirt down through the flight.

As soon as I sat down, I put my pump bag under the seat and pulled out the bottle, nursing cover, burp cloth, and toys immediately and put them in the pocket of the seat in front of us. Easier access that way. I used the valet tag for my luggage carry on, so I didn't have to worry about getting that baby in the overhead bin. I really like the valet option these days, by the way.

So a few of the flights Truman was sleeping in my arms when we got onto the plane but he always woke up once we took off. I had been told that ascent and descent are the hardest on their ears and they need to suck to relieve pressure. I had the pacifier attached to his shirt, the bottle ready to go, and my nursing cover also ready as a last resort. Each flight, Truman only needed the bottle and pacifier and did totally fine---no crying at all. I gave him the bottle when he 'asked' for it which was usually once we were completely up at maximum altitude and the descent didn't seem to bother him.

I tried to be really good about keeping Truman's hands off the nasty windows and dirty airplane stuff but it's basically impossible to do so. I would wipe them off with hand sanitizer wipes as I could which at least eased my mind a bit. Also, it's impossible to have a baby on your lap and also put down your lap tray to enjoy your free beverage en route.

All in all, flying with a six month old proved way easier than expected. I think pre-planning helped a lot but mostly I'm betting this is a good age to fly versus an older, more mobile baby who likes to kick the back of the seat in front of him constantly. Then the game changes yet again. :)

Hope this helped some mom out there fretting about their first flight with baby. It's honestly not that big of a deal, I promise.

(Sneak peek of Truman's big baptism weekend....it's been SO much fun!!)



more to come...

Food for Baby

Did I mention to you that I am making Truman's baby food? Does that make me a crazy person, to add one more thing to my 'To Do' list or does it just make me more of a crunchy tree-hugger mama? Not sure, but I really do love it and it doesn't take that much time at all.

This is the website that is my 'Bible' of sorts when it comes to making baby food. Tons of ideas and tips and recipes for the babes and it's really well organized.

We started veggie purees right at six months and although our first choice of peas were an epic failure, we kept plugging away. In fact, I thawed all of the original peas and re-pureed them to see if I could get them smoother. I did, in fact, smooth them out but alas, Truman still hates peas. Guess we'll have to mix them into something else eventually.

So far I have made: peas, butternut squash, sweet potato, avocado, bananas (hasn't tried them yet), apples (hasn't tried them yet), and peaches. I also bought carrots and green beans, instaed of making them, because I heard both of those are very hard to make smooth enough and it was a lot easier to let Gerber do the dirty work. :) Truman loves all of the veggies except those nasty peas and we just started fruits, with peaches being our first pick, this week. Of course he has a sweet tooth like his parents and already scarfs the peaches down like none other.

What works for me: I make a big batch of a few different foods at one time. For instance, I made apples, peaches, sweet potatoes, and squash on Sunday night. They looked so pretty while baking I had to snap some pics:)



I picked Braeburn apples this time around and hope Truman likes them as much as I do! We are waiting on apples and also bananas so that he doesn't get too constipated. His bowel movements deserve a whole separate post but I'll spare you the deets. Let's just say we will stick to peaches for a bit. :)


Millions of peaches, peaches for me...


And squash is one of his top picks, for sure. It makes a TON of frozen cubes, too.


Ice trays, ice trays, who has the ice trays?


All of the foods (except bananas and avocados) need to be cooked somehow and usually baking is the best way to preserve the nutrients. We add just a bit of water to a pan and then put the foods face down in it, skin and all (for the sweet potatoes just poke holes in them and wrap in tin foil). Then you either put the whole thing in a sweet Magic Bullet or scoop out the 'meat' part and just blend that smooth. Pop the puree into ice cubes, let them freeze, then pull them out and store in ziploc bags. Voila--homemade baby food. You can thaw the cubes out in the fridge or even in the microwave if needed. Easy peasy.

I will usually add some water as I blend the foods but not too much--I tend to water it down right before I give it to Truman, so when I freeze it the food is still pretty thick. You can even add breastmilk to thin it out or sometimes once you thaw the cubes it naturally thins out by itself so no need to add anything at all. If it's too thin I usually add a bit of rice cereal or oatmeal cereal to thicken it up. It just depends on the food, I guess.

We tried using our nice Cuisinart blender but it was so big and bulky and hard to clean that we bought a Magic Bullet and I love using it for baby purees. It's the perfect size and cleans up easily, plus it gets the purees very smooth (ie no gagging for baby boy).






See this random giant sweet potato? Yeah, it didn't cook fast enough and I was ready for bed before it was ready that night, so we popped it half cooked in the fridge. I think this is hilarious and random so I took a pic. And then the next day I tried to re-cook it fully and it never softened up so I tossed it and stuck with just one tray full of s.potatoes. No biggie.


And the final result? Lots of fun little baggies-o-purees. I love all the colors. And yes, I froze banana puree and know that makes them a bit brown. Not too worried about it. The avocado also froze well, too, if you were wondering.








Any questions?

Because there is no posting without Truman pics let's move onto a few food-related videos, shall we?

Carrots (store bought!) were a huge hit. So was blowing raspberries while eating them.


Amoxicillan was NOT a big hit. In fact, he hated the bubble gum stuff. It's really quite funny now but was rather stressful at the time.


And this has nothing to do with food, but it's a super-cute video and I sound totally deranged in it. So maybe it will brighten your day a bit, too.

And no, his Halloween outfit is NOT a monkey outfit. I was referring to a every-day outfit with monkeys on it and he thought I was hilarious. But his Halloween costume has arrived and it's going to be totally badass. Top secret for now!

(Still working on that 'traveling with baby' post too, now that I'm a seasoned vet and have flown with Truman on two round-trips including one way by myself with a sick baby. Lots of tips to share)